i'd understand it more if he didn't have kumon here
watching him behave this way must be painful
if he feels guilty, that's fine. it's natural to feel guilt for something like that, and it's healthier than not feeling it at all. but i don't think he should hurt others with his guilt... especially not someone he cares about, who cares about him.
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watching him behave this way must be painful
if he feels guilty, that's fine. it's natural to feel guilt for something like that, and it's healthier than not feeling it at all. but i don't think he should hurt others with his guilt... especially not someone he cares about, who cares about him.
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i told him as much. it didn't matter about being nice to me, but mistreating kumon was too far
he shouldn't drag others down and i know kumon is worried because he told me. if he wants to be the enemy i get that but this isn't right
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let's hope that we're able to get through to him, if that is indeed what it is
and that if it isn't... we find some way to set him to rights